Older SWM Seeking New Sub
I'm looking for a sexually submissive divorced housewives ready sex encounters sex chat room younger woman (18 to 40ish) that wants to explore various BDSM activities. I'd prefer someone that is intelligent, open-minded, not afraid to speak their mind, and leads a very vanilla life. But, at the same time, also desires to give control of her sexual pleasure to a firm, but . I the submission and will never the power over your pleasure that you have given me. Myself, I enjoy administering pleasure, not pain or torture. If the words bondage and BDSM scare you a little, well they shouldn't. I'm my realm, you are helpless and typiy bound, but always in control. Encounters are agreed upon in advance, so you know what is going to happen. I don't use gags so you can clearly communicate if I'm doing something you are uncomfortable with. I'm not looking for a 24/7 slave or someone to . I just want to find someone with submissive tendencies that enjoys being bound and pleasured. Now, the pleasure comes from several sources. Toys, a fucking machine, and/or me. Your senses will be bombarded, especially with the bondage being incorporated. A typical encounter would be you strapped down somehow with your legs apart. You can't escape, but are relaxed. The bondage is meant to restrain. It's not about torture or testing your . I use a vibrator on your clit and bring you close to orgasm. Then stop. The teasing may continue for a while. Once you are warmed up, I insert the dildo attached to the fucking machine. At first it's a slow and fuck. I gradually increase the speed and stroke length until it's pounding you hard. Then I work on other parts of your body with vibrators or anything else that you find arousing. You lose count of the number of you have. We do this for hours on end with various toys and positions. Later encounters could involve much more restrictive bondage and perhaps purpose build apparatus. But, just the process of tying you up might take twenty minutes. Maybe more depending on how much I play with you. My hands will be all over you body. Most positions I'm fond of keep you well exposed so that inserting dildos/vibrators is easier for me. Light are a possibility too. They are meant as more of a sensual experience than as punishment. It's not me beating you, but about turning you on. There is a lot more contact than just spanking. I like to start the spanking with you bound and fully clothed. By the time I pull your panties off, they are usually very wet. The are optional of course if that is not something you are comfortable with. If those situations or something similar (50 shades of grey stuff) sounds like fun, then I want to hear from you. I understand that submitting to the bondage requires a good deal of trust. And I'm willing to invest the time to earn yours. This is not something for a one night stand. I want this to involve recurring encounters where we can escalate the intensity of the BDSM activities over time as our level of trust grows. Obviously, all limits will be respected. Like I said before, you are helpless but in control. Besides the trust, honesty and communication are critical. I need to know what turns you on and what doesn't. This happens before, during and after each encounter. I can't maximize your pleasure without honest, communication. Everyone's sexual needs and desires are different and I don't make any assumptions about yours. Physiy, I am attracted to women similar to myself. I'm tall and thin and generally drawn toward that. But do not let that discourage you from replying. Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes, and we won't know if there is an attraction until after we swap . I'm in my mid forties, but look a a little younger. A full head of hair, with no yet and a flat helps. I also like to exercise regularly (mainly walking). Geographiy, I'm in Duluth close to Gwinnett Place Mall. I own my own house and live there by myself. I'm also single with no . Despite my sexual preference for sexually submissive women, I'm a very normal guy with a very normal job. Everyone in my life is glad that I'm in theirs. I'm a long way from being a controlling, arrogant . I'm actually just the opposite, very thoughtful, considerate and reasonably intelligent with a creative streak. During the day, I lead a very vanilla life, but behind closed doors it's anything but vanilla. When you respond, please put "D/s" somewhere in the subject line of the . That helps me separate the spam bots from the women that actually read this. You can ask me anything you want. I'm an open book. Also, a would be appreciated, but not required at this point. The bondage bed in the is mine. I built it myself. It's stout and structurally sound. I designed it to accommodate a variety of positions and restraint possibilities. m4ww m4wm m4mw sub submissive dominant d/s top bottom master slave submission domination