iso: Female-led Relationship
Nota Bene: Before you take the time to read and consider responding to this genuine personal please note the following points:
- I am a submissive man and make no apologies for it.
- I identify as an anti-patriarchal, progressive, feminist, leftist.
- I am only seeking a long-term committed romantic relationship with a strong-willed woman who may or may not identify as a 'dominant' but wants a man and relationship on her terms and is exceedingly comfortable wearing the proverbial pants.
Now that we have that out of the way, please feel free to read on if you think this type of relationship dynamic might suit you:
This is an atypical posting by a non-traditional man. I am a secure submissive male interested in romancing and pleasing a smart assertive woman with a decidedly dominant disposition who shares my interest in developing a growth-oriented long-term female-led relationship.
I always have been attracted to strong-willed women who prefer to be the leading relationship partner. Female-led relationships are becoming more accepted - publicly and privately - as a relationship/lifestyle choice for some modern couples. I am not interested in convincing or converting any woman to this type of partnership dynamic who is not familiar or comfortable with the basic tenets of what this entails. I believe, too often, men try to impose their needs - sexual and otherwise - on women and that is not what this is about. I'm looking for a relationship dynamic that's focused on balancing a woman's preference to be the loving dominant partner and head-of-household with my desire to respectfully and deferentially support her leadership and decision-making. Why should a woman, who wants control, have to take a back seat to a man?
I am aware this type of non-traditional relationship has limited appeal and am prepared for a minimal response. I remain hopeful I can meet one remarkable woman can appreciate a positive, romantic, female-focused, growth-oriented relationship with me, a sincere submissive man.
If you are intrigued and wish to pursue a dialogue I would like to mention that I am available for an in-person interview at your convenience and prefer not to drag out the initial meeting too far past our initial communications.
Here's what you should know about me:
-I am heterosexual male and always have been. My desire is to be pleasing in all aspects of a female/male relationship. I do love sex but also understand that as the submissive partner my preferences and needs will always be secondary. I embrace the concept that I will do as I am told and have no problem adapting to the needs and demands of my partner.
-I am from a loving home and parents. I am not a child of divorce and have a wonderful relationship with parents and relatives. I have always been good natured, gentle and happy to offer a smile and a kind word to almost everyone.
-I am professional, educated, well traveled and have an interest in the world at large. I am naturally curious, inspired by the sacrifices of others and distressed at the pain and anger that exists in the world.
-My politics are liberal/progressive and I believe an open-mind is a prerequisite for living a full happy life. I proudly identify as a 'feminist' and believe one-size-fits-all gender roles don't work for me.
-I seek a woman who shares my desire to grow as a couple and where your authority over me is acknowledged so we can work together to solve problems. As the dominant partner and 'boss', you obviously have veto power over all my decisions and I, in turn, respect and appreciate the direction and control you provide.
-I'm attentive and accountable. I'm not presumptuous in my thinking and am always respectful of the woman who has chosen me.
-I am a reflection of the woman who has chosen me and whether my true role as her 'submissive' is divulged [her decision] to friends/family, I must reflect her good taste and always look my best and act as the true gentleman I am.
-My role requires a positive optimistic can-do outlook and personality. I'm seeking nothing less than to become an unerringly compliant lover. I believe in the power of female-directed [enforced] chastity and make no assumptions regarding when/how any pleasure is gifted to me by you. My submission is my surrender - given freely and celebrated mutually.
Here's what I am hoping to find in a female partner/lover:
-An appreciation that I'm a wonderful find and can be a great lover, partner and companion.
-An understanding that though I will be deferential to you and your demands my desire to follow is not a license to abuse but instead mold and develop me in to your ideal lover and partner.
-You understand that being in charge is a celebration of your strength, power and natural authority as a woman.
-As a strong confident woman you appreciate men - like me - who truly delight in pleasing and serving domestiy and sexually. You take comfort in knowing your demands will be met. You believe orgasms are a privilege for men; a right for women.
-You know it is your birth-given right as woman to be catered and attended to.
-You are a woman who is attractive, feminine, fit, healthy and drug/disease free.
-You are a non-smoker [absolutely won't negotiate this point] and nothing more than a social/light drinker.
-You're confident about being the primary partner in the relationship and know the man you're choosing is happy to submit and defer to your authority. You think the world would be a better place if women had more control and power in shaping the future.
I have a variety of interests - from travel [domestic and international]; exploring new restaurants, cafes, museums/galleries, independent films, and just living well. I'm a well-rounded, loving, respectful, compassionate man with integrity who simply wishes to please the woman in his life.
My Stats:
>48
>6'3"
>HWP
>white
>brown eyes
>dark brown hair
>no facial hair
>healthy, non-smoker and drug/disease free