Sweet seeking casual dating

Seeking to lose my virginity. So yeah, as the titles states, I'm a 23-year-old virgin looking to have my first time. I have a hard time initiating relationships with girls (I'm sort of shy). I've kept myself too busy to commit to something to eventually lead to a sexual relationship in the past due to /work (not as hectic anymore which is why I'm making this post), and as much as I would have liked to lose my virginity on my own, I feel like this is just becoming a burden that I'm ready to lose. As stated already I'm 23 year old. Finished not too long ago for now, Athletic body type, work out regularly (4-5 times a week, mainly 5 a week though). I am okay with this being a one timer or an on-going thing (FBW or something), it all depends on how things turn out and of course entirely up to you. If you'd like any other information covered feel free to ask in your message. As for you: Please be and Disease Free (this is IMPORTANT). I'm open-minded when it comes to appearance (I do have a thing for Curvy/Thick/BBW and Older/Mature Women 30-50+ and if you fall in this category it's a plus, however even if you don't fall under those categories feel free to message me if interested). I'm not judgmental/picky and like I said I'm open minded so unless you're extremely physiy deformed or severely obese there is nothing to worry about, so feel free to shoot me a message. YOU MUST include a of yourself. While this might be asking for too much upfront, in the you must include yourself holding a piece of paper with the current date and your favorite color/team or something to verify you are legit and not some random posing as someone they're not in hopes of collecting pictures, just a simple face/body is fine and of course nothing sexual. Obviously I don't mind doing the same afterwards. While it seems like too much to ask for upfront I'd like to avoid all the shady crap that goes around in this , and since this is what I'm asking for I probably won't get many replies, if any at all and it's no big deal, to be honest I don't really expect anything to come about from this although if something does great, if not it is what it is as this was mainly made out of curiosity, although I would definitely go through with it if it was right. I don't live too far away from the Portage Park / Irving Park areas to give you a general idea of where I'm located and as stated previously, if any questions arise feel free to include them in your description/ . If you plan to only send me one or two sentences in your reply don't bother, I expect a decent sized description about yourself (likes/dislikes, just generally a little about yourself) that's not broken English so we can get to know each other more before anything occurs as I try to take as much caution as possible as I'd assume you would be as well, so the back and forth chatting doesn't annoy me at all. The more we get to know each the better.