Maybe Your Baby
Where does one meet the beautiful adult ready sex names of men woman of his dreams? where are you? if you are in the bars, I won't find you. If you don't go to my Church, I won't find you. I might find you in a bookstore - - but I'd probably be too shy to approach you just out of the blue. I won't meet you at Country Jam or Rock Jam, not that I wouldn't like to be there with you, but we haven't met yet and I won't go alone. If your work path does not cross mine, I won't meet you. I might meet you on the Riverfront Trail, or the Audubon Trail, or in the balcony of the Avalon, or staring out over Writer's Point on the Monument. I might meet you here, on CL - - what are the chances?! A few things for you to know: your age doesn't matter to me; your physique does. Junk food, fast food, and most restaurant food does not appeal to me, especially because I like being in the kitchen, preparing meals from scratch with fresh ingredients, and I'm really good at it. The fact that you are not a virgin is not important to me, but it is important that you don't sleep around. I would like to take you to church before I take you to bed. When we do get to the place in our relationship where we become intimate, if you are not playful and sensual, we won't get along. The extent of your financial portfolio doesn't matter to me, but how you manage what you have is. If you throw money away on booze, cigarettes and drugs, we won't get along. You don't have to dress in designer jeans, but you should turn a head or two in a pair of Wranglers. If you painted your nails in anticipation of a Friday night date with me, I'll be very appreciative - - and I'll let you know it. If you do not have a keen sense of humor and can't laugh at yourself on occasion, we won't get along. The smarter you are, the more you're going to like me. I am a big listener of NPR and enjoy documentary programs like Frontline, NOVA and 60 Minutes. I do not watch Fox News or listen to Limbaugh or Hannity; if you do, that is probably a deal breaker. I am a "do gooder" and enjoy volunteering where I think I can help out. I do not let my past determine future outcomes; you shouldn't either. Don't expect me to treat you like your old boyfriends; it isn't going to happen because I am unique and you have never, ever met anyone like me. Which leads me to offer what is perhaps a simple truth: when you get to your mid 40s and aren't settled into a comfortable and loving relationship, there is probably a good reason for that. But I am willing to also consider that there is at least one woman who has made it that far, and who is now alone, and it's only because she hasn't found a good man who really deserves her. And that is exactly the woman I am looking for. If you are interested in knowing more about me, and are serious about pursuing a relationship with a caring gentleman - - with honesty and respect from the very beginning - - please mail me. I'm not interested in a long exchange of emails and texts. Tell me when and where you would like to meet and let's begin our conversation in person. We have everything to gain and, at minimum, will make a new friend. Thanks for reading my post. (If you reply, please put your eye colour in the subject line.)