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To B(BW) or not to B(BW). ...that is my question! Ok, so clearly there is a BBW controversy here on good 'ol 's List. I see ads for men that prefer BBWs and I also see ads requesting that BBWs not respond to their ads. Most men are rather kind in the wording they use in their declination to date larger women which I think is both polite and respectful. These are the things that I have observed while checking out ads. Now, I have several questions for the interested reader woman wants nsa Torrington Connecticut to answer if you feel so inclined. Number one, how do u even define "BBW"? If BBW stands for Big Beautful Woman (which really just means fat chick) how big are we talkin here? When I, as a woman, think BBW, I think of McCarthy, the chubby girl from Bridesmaids and The Heat, I think of Rosie O'Donnel, I think of the big black gal from the movie . Those women are BBWs, or at least BWs! (Big Women!) No offense intended, of course, I'm just trying to see if my understanding of BBW is the same as what your average mans is too. Now, what about women that aren't super, super overweight like that, but are still chubby? .. Like the singer ? She's clearly overweight, but she's not all flabby, cottage cheesy, cellulitely fat, she's just a "large" woman, right? Are we in agreement here? On the same sheet of music? So, that being said, are women that are the size of in the same "man category" (or whatever you wanna it) as the "Rosie O'Donnells? Tell me men, I'm interested in knowing. Last question. (Or series of questions) Consider this hypothetical situation. I see a lot of ads where men of various ages state that they just want a good girl. Someone who is educated, assertive, honest, loyal, compassionate, REAL! No , no drama, just a QUALITY woman. Seems like a decent request, right? So let me ask you this, if you found that kind of woman, and she was truly the "beautiful" in BBW, but she was in fact the other B "Big" in BBW also, would it matter? Would you still give a large or larger gal the same chance that you would give a slimmer girl? Would you if you knew she was the one before hand? I'd like to know various opinions on the matter. I understand that attraction is programmed into us as humans, and if something doesn't do it for you, we'll then it just doesn't do it for you. BUT, emotional connection and the need to have a companion and not be alone is programmed into us as well. I'm sure you are all wondering if the author of this post is a BBW herself, and the answer is this: I am an type. Not super large, not thin. But I am also very ( humbly and assertively saying so) with the smarts, intelligence, independence, compassion, loyalty, honesty, and coolness that so many men truly seek. :) I'm not hatin and I'm certainly not intentionally being or disrespectful to anyone. I understand and appreciate all different points of view. . Just looking for honest answers and whatever else comes of this. Good luck on your journey, wherever it may take you!