I think a certain amount of "breaking away" from family bonds is important. You can't be obligated to family forever. The importance and strength of the family bond depends on how the family system adjusts to you as an adult. Do they accept you and you for who you are or do they try to manipulate/leverage you back into an older pattern or to serve their needs ahead of yours? If I had to bet, I'd think your siblings were used to you doing things for them when they were younger. So not only is it the fact that you have money that you're not sharing when they ask for it, but it's also that you used to do it and now you don't anymore. So you must not care. There's this pernicious value that runs in some families where family is first and family is everything. Of course, that's completely poison: it lets families suck resources from you and give nothing in return.
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so hey there i never done this before so idk what to say...
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when i wanna be i have my moments(:
so iam looking for a girl who i can hangout with
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Enjoy the weather on the deck
Wanted to see if there is a really fun, good, caring, cool girl who would like to go out and enjoy one of these few beautiful days on the deck or patio of a restaurant
and have a drink and/or ordervies. A bit witty sarcastic guy, wht 5' 9" bld blu, athletic fun, not a big drinker but when I do I drink Mcgolden light!
I would go into a long dragged out deal about me but that doesn't seem to be where it starts, I will send a pic to ease the mind.
Been waiting for the weather to break and I am going crazy wanting to get out in the warm sun.
Champps, fletchers or there is a whole assortment of others to try for the first time. Hey, lets get out finally and have some fun. Talk to you soon!!
"There's always rainbows after rain..." w4m
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Girl on the Montrose 78 every morning. . . m4w
So up until last month I took the beautiful adult wants horny sex local singles chat montrose bus to work everyday. And everyday I would see you because we usually got on at the same time at either Kimball or St. Louis. We exchanged glances(at least I glanced at you), but I never had the balls to come up and talk to you. Becaue of that I'm trying MC.
Me; Tall, black hair, a little chubby, and glasses.
You: Cute, pigtales, and some some sweet tatts.
Yes, I know I'm a creep for trying this, but what the hell...its the internet.
Hope to hear from you, but most likely not.
Still, I just found out about this part of CL and I had to give it a try.