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Casual Sex... ...Hey,, thanks for opening this and at least reading this far... :-).. I dont want to take this pursuit too serious, but then again, i want to take it serious enough as to actually find a woman in the area that would like engage in some fun casual sex. And before you judge me harshly, as many of the posts in here admittedly deserve, hear me out for a minute... maybe ill surprise you, maybe i wont... I dont know how to make this sound less creepy, because every way i seem to phrase it in my head, it sounds like im just another run of the mill creep... i mean, whats the appropriate way to ask to find a woman to have casual sex with. I mean, would i ever go to the bar and use any of this kind of language... haha, probably not, unless i wanted to get about a million times and/or slapped. but I guess i am protected in here a little, you would actually have to put a little effort into replying to me to tell me im an ass hole and a pig and there is no hand to the face action going on either... so... im just going to come out with it... im looking for a woman to have casual sex with from time to time.. why me you ask.. first off, that is a great question.. and also, thanks for reading this far, you are supremely awesome! I am not going to claim to be a sex god, or be a master of anything sexual... but i will say that if you asked anyone that i've been with in the past they would tell you that I'm more than decent in bed. I believe in chemistry ruling the day when it comes to how well we will do, and, at least for me, chemistry is built on attraction, flirting, , and great kissing. Again, not going to claim to be a kissing master, I have certainly had my hits and misses, and definitely prefer a certain type of woman in this regard... when there has been attraction, flirting, and great kissing, there has inventively been spectacular sex. Suffice to say, im not just going to be jumping into the sac with you the first minute i meet you... maybe 30 mins later ;-), i mean....I do have some standards and a little respect for myself,, but it will be easy to tell if its going to happen or not, at least on my end... you might totally disagree, and that will be totally ok... i dont go into any date with any expectations.. i do a lot of finger crossing before hand . :-) anyway... so a brief about me: 31 years old, kid, not attached, 6 feet tall, sane (for the most part) and normal (ditto), I have a job and a car, a bunch of friends, and am insanely busy on a typical day... I cant meet every week, but would love to hang out when its possible... and who know, im not going to promise anything, but it could turn into something a little later on, im open to any possibility, but for the interim, im looking for for the , intensely emotional, connection to start off with, something with no strings (and yes, that does put me in the same category as most of the guys on here, i do hope you can see that im, at least a little, different than most of the guys on here) good luck with your search, and woah... thanks for reading all the way through... you might as well complete this journey and reply.. i see it as the only appropriate thing to do at this point, i mean, what are you going to do, just hit back after reading this masterpiece ;-)./. take it easy, later oh and ill send you a proper when you reply... there has to be some mystery,,, right... i promise not to disappoint, and if you need a comparison, i look sort of like (and have actually been compared to this guy on more than one occasion by different people, weird i know) Piven.