Needle in the haystack
I am a single male. Hoosier all my life. Living alone again, so it would be nice to find a girlfriend to make life a little less lonely. Brown hair, blue eyes, usually shaven, and glasses. In the interest of complete honesty (something of a rarity in online dating), I should state upfront that I am overweight. Working on changing that, and diligently. At present writing, I am over 400 lbs. I am fortunate in that it doesn't disable me much beyond not being able to run a marathon. If this puts you off, I'll understand. Also in the interest of honesty, I'm currently unemployed but am somewhat financially stable. Don't smoke or drink and free. I often feel out of touch with the status quo of life in Indiana. I wouldn't say that I'm above the blue collar mindset because it is all I've known. I just see the world differently, and how I was blessed (or cursed) with that I'll never know. My tastes run concurrent to this thinking. I love music, but the stuff I'm really passionate about you likely won't hear on the radio. I love , more than I'd care to admit but I'm open-minded to a good story wherever it comes from. The occasional good book does tickle the , but it's really those two fields of art I'm passionate about receiving. Politiy, I would describe myself as very socially liberal and financially conservative but I admittedly am a bit lost when it comes to financial matters . Religiously, I'm agnostic. Very passive about it, and usually wouldn't put it in here but I'm making this as honest as I can. I respect anyone of faith who uses it for positive purposes, and not to judge people with it. Prove you aren't spam by writing Pie in the of your response, so I don't delete or otherwise discard your message. I am into BDSM, and have been for around a decade now. Curious and intrigued about it for longer than that. It is probably frowned upon to write about sexual preferences, and I can understand that. Enough guys post pictures of their genitals, and women just roll their eyes at it. But to cite the H word again, I feel the best way to write one of these is to be utterly honest about it. It's something I cannot lie about. I've met many people who lived in vanilla marriages and relationships who found their kink in them, and those relationships were severed as a result. I want my love to be as honest and true as I can be in other parts of my life. That said, I'm more interested in the dominant role personally in any lasting relationship. I have relative experience on both ends of the whip so to speak, so I'm open-minded about which end I can be on again. But I love spanking (and much more) women, and making them feel safe and secure in their submission. It's a high for me and could not replace. The girl I'd hope to meet on here meets most of this criteria, but I realize everyone's different. I'm open-minded and I hope you are too. Hell, if you've made it this far chances are it's true. Hopefully someone that understands how lonely it is to be the proverbial needle in the haystack. Looks don't matter a whole lot to me, but self-confidence does. Weight is no problem either, as long as you aren't severely unhealthy. Ideal age is 25-35 but I'm willing to make exceptions on either side as long as maturity is present.
White knight seeks FWB
Think dining, think baseball games, think bwdy shows, think an occasional trip to Grand Cayman, think hotel suites and room service and think lots and lots of sex.
I am an executive with a large libido, and life complicated enough for both of us.
Athletic, well travelled, financially secure and relatively attractive...
Looking for someone smart, fun, not jealous and occasionally in need of the itch being scrathed.
picture is required.