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Im not expecting perfection, but I am expecting a gentleman The gentleman I am seeking is smart, upbeat, in his mid/late 50s to mid 60s, enthusiastic about both mental and physical activities, possessed of a witty sense of humor, has a graduate education, is successful in his career, and has the emotional framework and free time to welcome getting to know each other. And if he is a great kisser, so much the better.
Hes single, a non-smoker, social drinker, appreciative of spontaneous absurdity, somehow still unjaded from the trials of love and life, emotionally idealistic enough to seek a meaningful (long term) connection with a partner, warm and open, tender-hearted, but still manly, flexible in mind, agile in schedule, a lover of words and ideas, a man who truly loves women, who has a luminous and contagious smile.
Me? I am a youthful 59, educated, kind, energetic, generous and loyal to those I care about, and passionate about that which is important to me. I am attractive, I have an average figure, brown hair, blue eyes. I have a variety of interest including music, concerts, theatre, hiking, museums, cooking, discovering new restaurants. I can be silly some times, quiet other times, always warm and always kind, often witty.
Let your first tell me something about you, what you are seeking, where you live (Manhattan preferred), marital status (which should be single, divorced or widowed, not married!)
Thank you for reading this far. I hope you have a very nice day.