Looking for my Lady
I am looking for a Special Lady with whom I can build a final relationship.
Whats wrong with wanting to have a partner? All the things that I do alone would be so much better with a partner friend. Are you willing to go to the driving range and hit some balls, doesnt matter if your good, Im not. How about getting up early in the morning to watch the sun rise and make plans over coffee about our day together? Lets go to the Murder Mystery dinner show or just drive away for the weekend on an adventure. Lets hit downtown and walk around listening to the music flowing from the doors until we find our favorite spot. I want to plant a garden with your help. Then cook together using what we grow. Lets go to some farmers markets to explore, buy something fresh and people watch. We hold hands and I steal a kiss when you laugh at my stupid jokes. Simple things together.
I was a semi retired Man by choice, not disability or age. I am working full time now to fill my days, (and get health insurance) but time is what I place value on! I try to be a good Steward and practice the 4 Rs. Reduce, Reuse, Recycle and Re-purpose. Im not fanatical just responsible. I try to live a" debt free" life style and enjoy the flexibility it provides. I own outright my home, old truck and almost everything else. (Just bought a car on payments) What can I say! But I believe in always sharing the blessings I do have. Just think of all the possibilities if you didnt have to pay a house payment, or loans of any kind! Thats true freedom. But along with all that comes frugality and doing things in moderation. I was once a successful Business owner and married for 30 years. Im no longer either and beginning the process of dating for the first time of my life! Ive traveled around the world and seen many beautiful places. I am well educated and enjoy a lively conversation. Most men my age have a bucket list but I was blessed to have already done most, if not all of it already! Now its time to settle down to enjoy the simple joys life can provide. Its been a difficult journey at times but being a happy, well adjusted, successful person isnt measured by the car you drive or the power you maintain. Its the relationships you build, Its in the friends you keep and Family.
I have found that even though I do enjoy my privacy and alone time its just not enough. I was a provider for so many years (three grown boys) I seem to be missing purpose. Im just not whole. I need my other half. The balance of companionship. I dont know if you can understand that, but its honest.
I enjoy fixing things now and working on my old house. I think that supplies me with some gratification. I enjoy period pieces on TV like "The White Queen "or any "Masterpiece " shows. I enjoy cooking and even more savoring good food. I am eating and I am in excellent health. Balance and moderation is key. I enjoy the finer things life can offer too, I love a good cigar and single malt. I enjoy trips to the beach, warm weather sexy swingers wants hot fucking adult horny and the ocean. I like to go to Flea Markets and yard sales to find that one thing I wasnt sure I needed until I see it. But most of all, I miss the company of a good woman, my special Lady!
I really am a simple man.
If you think we might have aligned values give me a chance. Thanks.
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Still looking for my successful bear
Well up to this point, my romantic history has been anything but smooth. However, I have gotten to the point in my life where I am looking for something real, lasting and worthwhile. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship or a perfect man or woman. However, you are either ready for a relationship or not. I am done with silly . Emotional stability/maturity is a must. Everyone has their preferences whether they be or not. I prefer a man that has his life together (decent job, own vehicle and , financially stable, not living with mom etc) I am also liberal minded, so if you are super conservative (republican), a big hunter ect this probably won't be a good match. Physiy I prefer larger men tall and husky to be precise. I am a tall and thick woman. I work out on a regular basis, but you must love my body how it is, You must also enjoy my tattoos. Currently I have 5 including a half sleeve and there are definitely more on the horizon. I am after a 4 year hiatus from the UO, so I am definitely still re-exploring the area. If you are a bigger guy with a steady life and are looking to meet a great woman I would love to hear from you. Please send me an with some content (more than a pickup line or a one line ) and we can begin to chat. I look forward to hearing from some great gentlemen.PS: If I can tell you did not read this ad I won't respond so mention something that will let me know you read it.
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A bad girl looking for her good man
: I posted an ad ( see below) last month when I just moved to Merced where I have a good friend , I lived in her home for less than 2 weeks and got a job a real quick in Hayward where I am working living . But I continue to receive the responses from the people in Merced . I am willing to move back to Merced if I can find someone special there . The thing is I see myself as a wonderful girl , looking for the significant wonderful other one . If you don't meet my expectations , pls don't bother ; If you do , pls send a thoughtful letter telling me about your basic information like age , height , weight as well as past relationship , family , , education , career , .. with attached recent . I will try to get back to you ASAP . I WON'T respond to those : 1) Who don't meet my expectations . 2) Who are not able to write a thoughtful letter . 3) Who have no clear recent . 4) Who send . 5)Who leave their phone numbers to let me or text . I won't give you my cell number before we get to know each other more and become serious . I value my time as well as yours . _______________________________________________________________________ I just drove across the country moving here in Merced . The landscape on the trip was fantastic , but the was hard to manage . Hopefully some day I can find someone special accompanying me to go back to visit some parts of it again . A bad girl looking for her good man Yes , I am a bad girl ! I used to be a respected teacher in front of my students , a kind but strict manager in company , an elegant lady in public , but I can be a very bad girl behind the closed door when my man wants ! More about me ? I'm well-educated with two university degrees (English Education and Journalism). Reading is my main hobby because I believe it is the easiest way to gain intelligence . I am a lifetime learner , focus on self-improvement all the time . I am quiet and a little shy sometimes ,but in a relationship with my sweetheart, I am open,warm,passionate and affectionate, sometimes a little naughty and wild. Hold hands for a walk, cuddle for a movie , or even just sit on the relaxing .. I Do enjoy them . His warm arms will be my favorite hotspot , staying there,I don't desire too much to go anywhere else . I am a mature lady ,but have the silly girly-girl side in nature . I like , when meeting them at stores , feel hard to walk away without playing with them ; I also like to listen to the senior people telling their lifelong . I have intense passion for love and life , have a variety of interests , a people person , can fill in with all of social settings . Can joke around , laugh at my own mistakes and learn from them . I enjoy the pleasure from simple things ,but choose not to sweat for the small stuffs . When I travel out of the town , if time permits I like to go on the back way instead of interstate freeway for the better landscape . I like dancing and good at it .I am not a big sports fan , so I regard dancing as my favorite sport . Swimming is what I am ready to learn , are you willing to teach ? I would say I am a good homemaker , always try to keep home neat,clean and comfortable .(but I am not a neat freak, do not pursue perfectly clean , my philosophy is people are the masters of their houses , not their slaves) .I like cooking , try to eat right and keep simple lifestyle ,never did smoking/drinking/ /gambling . dated around or slept around .. I am not a person who falls in love easily,but once love , it would be 100%. As a strict one-man woman,I remain loyal to him . For the world , he may be just one person , but to me , he will be the whole world ! Like most Asian people , I live within my means and good enough to keep quality life with relatively low budget ( and I know too many people cannot,lol) Unlike most women, I like books and electronics more than clothes and jewelry . ( I portable players , , smartphone , tablet , laptops ,cameras ,GPS... all the techie gizmos and usually get them earlier than most people , lol ) I understand we come from different culture background , I have no problem with it and eager to learn more from you . (my deceased husband is a Caucasian man ). I have a son , 19 years old , a US military boy living in the base . The one I am looking for : prefer you are Caucasian , close to my age , above 5'7" in height (I am 5'1"), well-educated ( at least ) , intelligent ,easy-going , family-oriented , emotionally and financially stable , have your own home , ready to spend the rest of time with the woman you love . When life throws tough things at you , I won't escape , instead , I will be there for you -- trustworthy and dependable , this is what I did before for the people around me , also my promise for you , hopefully you are the same for me .I am a woman , but more chivalrous than many men . I also hope you are a man who is willing to put great effort to communicate -- it is necessary for serious relationship , and also how chemistry creates ,right ? I like to do things in the balanced / moderate way , if you like to go crazy or extreme way , then you are not my man . The man with long head hair or very long beard or moustache is a big turn-off to me .I like clean-cut man . If you are good at computer applications , it is a plus to me . And I am very attracted to the man who is both academic smart and street smart . I am 45 , glad to be told I look younger than my age . I am a dress lady , have lots of nice dresses . Business casual is my style as well . If you like what you read and see , feel free to hit me up , I am an open book , will be very willing to answer any question you have for me . I am here eagerly and patiently waiting for you to walk towards me ! Thank you .