African-American woman ISO LTR
BEFORE YOU CONTINUE:
I wont send you my picture!
I offer to meet you face-to-face, in person.
I am not going to change my mind about this so please be respectful and accept it or dont respond. I am sick and tired of men who pretend like they didnt read this.
I grew up in the 90s when people lowell in pussy still sat down in person over food or coffee to build a relationship. It is a part of my culture (east African) to meet break bread and enjoy the other persons companionship.
No endless texting, ing ect. I will cut off contact pronto if we dont set a day to meet during our first conversation. If we set a date and you stand me up never contact me again.
If you have personal questions to ask me- feel free to ask me in person when we meet. I wont play /text tag.
Lets pick a public place like a library, Starbucks, a restaurant and get to know each other. No exceptions- I only offer meeting in person. If you want my picture take one when we meet.
ABOUT ME:
I am an African-American woman. If you have a racial preference of who you are open to dating this information is for you to use at your discretion.
I will not be your fwb. If you want sex or instant physical interaction bypass my post. I want to find compatible guy for a LTR. I hope I get married one day so I have to start dating now. Dont want to be lonely spinster with cats aka the cat lady, lololol
I am a "big tall" women. Hence, men into short or petite women shouldnt respond. While I will always have a large frame due to my height, I can maintain a slimmer physique and I am working on it. My body wont transform overnight though; all things with time.
I have dark brown skin, brown eyes, short natural African-American type hair. So, either you are attracted to these aesthetics or you are not. I am honest so letting you know the basics.
I am a creative, artistic, bohemian, eccentric type of women. I color outside of the lines and think outside of the box. I am very much my own person. If "different" scares you bypass my post. I wont change for you and dont want you to change your core self for me. If either of us cant accept the other for who we are, then the way I see it- we arent meant to be together.
I am a Vegan but you dont have to be. If you are or can support me being one: bonus points! I dont want to be with someone who is going to pressure me to eat meat/dairy or make a big deal out of it. You can order a steak and I will order a salad. :-)
I HATE dramatic and passive men. I am an adult and know how to express myself by communicating with words. Not pouting like a or giving the slient treatment to my partner. I expect the same from the person I am in a relationship with. So, I expect maturity.
I love Margaritas but dont like the bar scene. I like the Opera but dont own one elegant dress to wear if I were ever invited to attend one. I watch a lot of PBS, which televises Operas. Love that station!
I am a simplistic women; not materialistic. I wear what makes me feel comfortable and happy. It may or may not be to your liking.
I stay up late at night sometimes so thank god for Hulu and Netflix. I can be spontaneous and live in the moment. At other times I can be reserved and cautious. It all depends on the situation and people involved.
I have lived a rough life but look forward to bigger and better things. I really want a man who is positive but can balance that out with logic and reality. No one can be positive all the time. We are all only human. Sometimes I just need a hug and someone to listen not try to fix anything.
Please no and alcohol abusers. I am NOT 420 friendly so no pot heads please. I dont even smoke cigarettes. I lead a clean lifestyle and only associate with those who do as well.