Real Friends with Real Advantages
Ive never been involved in a casual relationship before, so this is a first for me, however I am currently single which means; no wife, no girlfriend, no crazy ex, no complications and no drama.
I have written this post because Im tired of doing everything alone. Yet, the struggle I see with traditional dating is that there is too much pressure to to create something instead of just letting it happen on its own, so Ive decided Im curious to see if a legitimate casual type of situation is possible. and I have come up with a "top ten" list of what I think I could offer.
Before you read my post, I should mention that I am not looking to be a potential home wrecker, so no offense to anyone, but I am not interested in getting involved with someone who is married, and yes, separated is still married.
1. Im thoughtful and considerate and will treat you with courtesy and dignity; not because Im playing you, but because thats beautiful adult wants horny sex sex granny how I was raised to treat people. Im not just a nice guy. Im a good guy. I have morals and integrity, with the perfect amount of a hidden bad boy side.
2. I fully understand the advantages only happen if there is chemistry, mutual attraction and a genuine connection. If there isnt, then Im completely cool with that too, because what could be wrong with making a new friend to go out and do things with.
3. Speaking of the friends doing things with, that would entail doing friendly things together like; dinner, movies, hiking, concerts, hanging out, cooking together, etc, without pressure for anything more, which again, is totally cool with me.
4. Im real. Im genuine and most of all, Im normal. Im even fairly good lookingor so Im told. I have a sarcastic and witty sense of humor and a good head on my shoulders. Im definitely not another creepy slist guy.
5. It doesnt have to be one way or the other, IE; a one night stand versus a LTR. Why cant there be an "in between"? Is that even possible? The optimistic side of me wants to believe it is. (note: Im not against it leading to something more serious or committed if that is where it goes. That would be a bonus)
6. Im not going to you just because Im looking to get lucky and neither should you. What if either of us just wanted some company? Maybe get a bite to eat or catch a movie, or just hang out. What a concept. On second thought, scratch that. You can me when youre looking to get lucky and Ill do my best to play hard to get.
7. Ive been alone for a few years and I miss the simple little things like hanging out watching a movie, cooking together, grabbing a coffee and even flirting, so be ready to get your flirt on.
8. I can be very good with the friends part and just as good with the advantages part. Ill listen to you vent and give you a reassuring hug if that is what you need, or Ill throw you up on the kitchen counter and fill in your own image here if that is what you need. How awesome would it be if you had a guy you count on for both?
9. Id prefer this to be a monogamous situation. With all the risks associated with multiple sexual partners these days, heres three reasons Im not looking to take those kinds of chances; #1: Its not worth it. #2: Im better than that. #3: Youre better than that.
. This is not a matter of my just looking to get lucky. If that is all I wanted, it would be easy enough to accomplish. Its deeper than that. This is more about finding a woman of substance that I can connect with on more than just an intimate level, so if you are too cynical to understand or relate to what Im trying to say, then Im probably not for you.
So there is my sales pitch. Maybe you too would like a new friend without who isnt going to pressure you for anything more. Maybe you dont have time for a a full fledged relationship but are missing the company and potential passion of a good guy. Maybe you just want to experience something different with a guy you can trust who isnt going to judge you. Maybe you miss the anticipation of what happens next.
Whatever it is, why not take a gamble and send a reply and tell me something about yourself, or feel free to reply with your thoughts on this whole idea, or with any experiences you might be willing to share.
I have intentionally not listed my age because I didnt want to miss out on a potentially fantastic reply because someone thought I was too or too old. See how I did that and kept you guessing there? Besides, its all about chemistry and not what society says is or isnt acceptable. However, I would ask two that you please put the year you were born, picture and favorite drink in the subject so that I can separate real replies from spam.
Are you looking for discretion. M4W
Hi
51 yo WM
available for discrete dating or hookups.
Can be one time or more if you feel the need.
Your wish is my command.
Shy and very, very discrete, safe and beautiful adult wants horny sex sex granny sane and I am sure after you meet me, you will feel safe.
Im not married and I dont get out much to meet people.
Will meet in public at a location of your choice first.
Not a pro, and this is the first time I posted this here.
reply with photo your hand flashing a peace sign gets a #.
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